2/14/19
Most people who become pastors do so because they
believe that God called them to the ministry. This is key because no one should become a pastor if he or she simply sees it as a career. You will
quickly become frustrated, resentful and overwhelmed, which will affect your
ability to care for yourself and your congregation.
But
even people who are confident that God called them, still find themselves under the
tremendous pressure of being a spiritual leader. There is so much more to being
a pastor than preaching on Sunday mornings. Among many other things, they are
also overseeing committee meetings and church ministries, visiting the sick and
the dying, counseling individuals, doing weddings and funerals and leading
social justice efforts.
Sadly, many pastors tend
to ignore, deny or downplay the toll their work has on their physical health. Gary L.
Harbaugh, in his book Pastor as Person,
says that pastors are quick to encourage their parishioners to take care of
themselves. They will not, however, heed their own advice. “The same pastor
might also preach from the pulpit that the body is the temple of the Holy
Spirit. But when it comes to himself or herself, the pastor tends to forget
that he or she is an embodied person” (Harbaugh, p. 48). Stating that pastors
have a body might seem obvious, but it is worth emphasizing. So often, church members - and society - put pastors on a pedestal and view them as superheroes, forgetting
that they are humans with the same needs as anyone else. It is no wonder then that so many pastors have at least a 50 percent chance of seeing a change in their health (Harbaugh, p. 42).
So what can a pastor do?
For starters, they must admit that they need help and then be intentional in seeking
it out. Help could come in the form of a clergy support group, self-care activities
and counseling. When pastors take care of themselves, everyone benefits.
By Alicia Grey, seminary student
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